Who we should not forget?

She found it very apt to say that we should not forget 3 types of people in our lives.

1. Who helped you in your difficult time
2. Who left you in your difficult times
3. Who put you in difficult time.

In that case, it must be very difficult to forget me. Because I was once 1, subsequently 3 and finally in her opinion, 2. Although it is my own inference, I believe it should be correct.

For me, she is just a 3. But that helped me to grow, to mature, to know what to do the next time I am in a relationship. There were good times and bad times and I believe that I'm not a lousy boyfriend, just the wrong boyfriend. It is the same for her.